Over at Melissa's Genesis 5020, she gave me a new perspective and helped me choose my word for the year:
YouTube suggested this Tony Robbins video, and it was exactly what I'd been looking for without realizing it.
"Grace Beyond Grace" is a blog written by Lynn Bukowski, an amazing woman. Her husband was a Navy SEAL. Her FB presence is LZ-Grace Warrior Retreat Foundation.
Jean Fischer shared some good advice on starting the new year. Yes, it's three weeks past, but this is when I need the encouragement to keep trying.